Fr. Pinto Paul is the International Director of the Boston-based Holy Cross Family Ministries. In this role, he oversees the programs and services at centers in 17 countries
In the January issue of this newsletter, we talked about making our families alive by praying together. For February, I would like to draw your attention to making our families alive by living a virtuous life as a family, namely by entertaining good thoughts and expressing goodness in our interactions.
There is an ocean of goodness in everyone, but we don’t always see it. Although each child is born with the seeds of God’s precious gift of goodness, using this gift does not come naturally. We must develop and nurture it as we grow. We start in our families, where we see it expressed in the interactions, we have with each other. And we extend our expression of it as we move out into our larger communities.
One teacher in a high school class asked the students to write on a piece of paper one good thing that they saw in each of their classmates. Then the teacher collected the comments without the names of the writers, compiled the comments for each targeted student and distributed them to those students. Reading so many positive comments from their classmates, made the class members feel better about themselves for the rest of the year and many for the rest of their lives. (An Unforgettable Classroom Exercise--by freeHUGSrock, posted Nov 15, 2015).
We easily get in the habit of focusing on what is wrong with us, instead of, on the seeds of goodness God has sown in us. The more we nurture goodness and express it with thoughts and comments of love, compassion, forgiveness, tender care, generosity, and understanding, the better it grows. We just unconsciously crowd negative thoughts and comments out of our daily interactions with other members of our families. If you are carrying negative thoughts now, they can be replaced with good ones. The seeds for them have already been sown in our hearts by our Creator. Then we can express our good thoughts with good actions in our families.
Watching this video on cardinal and theological virtues will help you understand goodness better and introduce you to the other virtues.
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